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Pillars of personality: Breaking down the big five 

Carli Simmonds, Author

Carli Simmonds

Pillars of personality: Breaking down the big five 

Personality trait studies use the five-factor model to describe temperament and behavior. Psychologists use this modality to describe and predict how one person’s responses to situations differ from another’s. Unlike a Myers-Briggs test, everyone has varied amounts of all five personality factors—consciousness, extraversion, neuroticism, and openness.

Psychologists use significant differences in trait proportions to identify broad personality “types.” While Myers-Briggs has a unique category for everyone, most people have an “average” personality type with a healthy balance of all five factors. Each factor represents a spectrum. Everyone has “high” or “low” levels of each trait, which determine their overall personality when combined.

The factors studied in this psychological model transcend language, generations, and culture, which suggests biology influences personality development. The traits are heritable in varying amounts for each trait. Despite these discoveries, the established importance of childhood environment and upbringing on personality remains unchallenged. 

Determined by both nature and nurture, the big five personality factors measure how people socialize, control their behavior, and perceive themselves. 

Agreeableness

“Agreeableness” measures “prosocial” behavior. Highly agreeable people care more about others and their feelings. Those with lower agreeableness often belittle, manipulate, or ignore others.

High agreeableness 

Agreeable people take others’ needs and wants into account. They have an automatic interest in others’ well-being and enjoy helping others.  

Unfortunately, some agreeable people can’t put their foot down. They struggle with tough love and don’t assert their needs. Agreeableness can cause problematic people-pleasing behaviors that sacrifice career, finances, or emotional well-being to help others. 

Low agreeableness 

Lower-agreeableness people manipulate, belittle, or insult others. They take little interest in others’ problems and put themselves first. They tend to be more competitive, which disrupts relationships but may benefit them or create cutthroat environments. 

Conscientiousness

Conscientiousness represents discipline and impulse control. It indicates how well people move toward a goal, organize themselves, or cope in a structured environment. 

High conscientiousness 

Conscientious people prepare themselves for the future and prioritize important tasks. They thrive in routine and persevere in difficult circumstances. They exhibit attention to detail and follow up on their commitments. 

A person with too much consciousness is rigid and inflexible. Married to their routine, these perfectionists struggle to think outside the box or try a new approach. The most extreme cases suffer from obsessive-compulsive disorder. 

Low conscientiousness 

Someone with lower consciousness prefers a more freeform schedule and struggles to build a routine. They ignore, disregard, or put off problems and may fail to fix their mistakes. Some don’t clean up their messes. 

Others describe low-conscientious people as laid-back and relaxed. Less likely to stick to a schedule, the go-with-the-flow personality works well in some situations. Though they don’t always think ahead, they don’t need a plan to function. They improvise well and can perform when put on the spot

Extraversion

Extraversion represents levels of sociability, assertiveness, and outward emotional expression, also known as extroverts. Social interaction makes an extrovert feel energized and excited. Lower-extroversion people, also known as introverts, don’t necessarily avoid social interaction but need time alone to “recharge” afterward.  

High extraversion 

Extroverts thrive as the center of attention. They are not necessarily egotistical or attention-seekers but naturally dominate the conversation. They like meeting new people, making new friends, and initiating conversations. They speak without thinking or talk over others. 

Low extraversion 

Low-extraversion people tend to avoid the spotlight and consider their words before they speak. They express fewer emotions and avoid small talk. Many introverts flourish in jobs where they work alone, like programming or accounting. 

Neuroticism

Neuroticism measures emotional instability. Extraversion determines how someone expresses their feelings, and neuroticism predicts those feelings. High-neuroticism people stress and worry and experience mood shifts. Lower-neuroticism people confront difficult situations with emotional resilience and relax easily. 

High neuroticism 

The term “high-strung” often describes neurotic people or “worriers”. Neurotic people need time to recover from stress. They doubt their capabilities and blame themselves when things go wrong. 

Neuroticism has advantages. Fear of failure motivates high-neuroticism people to push themselves. Their risk sensitivity pays off in genuinely dangerous situations.  

Low neuroticism 

Less neurotic people deal with stress well. Their emotional stability helps them relax and take on stressful situations without overreacting. In serious moments, they often underestimate the gravity of negative situations and exhibit unrealistic optimism under stress. 

Openness

Openness to new experiences measures several personality attributes. Openness determines creativity, willingness to try new things, insight, and interest in abstract concepts and ideas.

High openness 

People with high openness love to take on new challenges, experiment, and find new ways to experience the world. They lean towards creative careers (especially the arts) and love to learn about the world. They are adventurous and more likely to reject tradition. 

Despite its many positive connotations, extreme openness makes life difficult. Too-open people make unstable or unrealistic goals or feel confined by societal expectations. People with mental disorders like schizophrenia and narcissism exhibit high openness. Routine or repetitive careers are difficult for them. 

Low openness 

People with low openness prefer familiar, known quantities and stick to tradition. They resist change in their own lives and in society around them. They flourish in jobs that repeat the same processes every day and take a practical approach to problems. Low-openness people tend toward political conservatism, while high-openness people are generally more liberal. 

How the big five personality traits change 

People change, and their personalities change with them. Aging changes peoples’ perspectives over time, and drastic life events cause rapid change. Evidence suggests that people dissatisfied with their personalities can make a conscious effort to change them.  

Age 

Childhood environment predicts the five-factor balance in adults, but most people lose some extraversion and neuroticism as they become adults. Personality levels stabilize around thirty and remain stable until middle age. After middle age, openness begins to decline. Without momentous life events, personalities otherwise remain stable. 

Life events 

Trauma has little impact on personality. Studies show increased consciousness changes in adults more than any other factor. New jobs, new relationships, and especially new children cause these changes; the heavy and sudden responsibility forces sudden and dramatic changes. 

Effort 

Most people want to change their personality. With therapy and training, they can. The most effective methods involve self-assessments. Patients review their responses to stimuli and reflect on how their reactions could have better aligned with their goals. With regular reminders and therapeutic reassessments, most participants in one 4-month-long study saw a marked change in their personality. 

This experiment only covered 16 weeks, which is not enough time to measure permanent changes. Nevertheless, The creators feel confident their results demonstrate that personality change can happen with enough effort and persistence. 

Understanding the Big Five and personal growth

Personality is not a fixed trait—while genetics and early experiences shape who we are, self-awareness and intentional effort can lead to meaningful change. The Big Five model provides a valuable framework for understanding ourselves and others, helping us navigate relationships, career choices, and personal development with greater clarity.

Whether someone is naturally introverted or extroverted, highly conscientious or more spontaneous, the key to growth lies in balance and adaptability. By recognizing our tendencies and how they influence our thoughts and actions, we can make informed decisions about how to shape our future.

Understanding personality traits is not just about labeling behaviors—it’s about fostering self-acceptance, improving emotional intelligence, and recognizing that change is possible. If you’d like to learn more about the Big Five and how you can refine their strengths, overcome challenges, and cultivate a personality that aligns with their goals and values, contact Red Ribbon Recovery today.

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About the content

Last updated on: Nov 27, 2025
Jodi Tarantino (LICSW)

Written by: Carli Simmonds. Carli Simmonds holds a Master of Arts in Community Health Psychology from Northeastern University. From a young age, she witnessed the challenges her community faced with substance abuse, addiction, and mental health challenges, inspiring her dedication to the field.

Jodi Tarantino (LICSW)

Medical reviewed by: Jodi Tarantino, LICSW. Jodi Tarantino is an experienced, licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) and Program Director with over 20 years of experience in Behavioral Healthcare. Also reviewed by the RRR Editorial team.

Red Ribbon Recovery is committed to delivering transparent, up-to-date, and medically accurate information. All content is carefully written and reviewed by experienced professionals to ensure clarity and reliability. During the editorial and medical review process, our team fact-checks information using reputable sources. Our goal is to create content that is informative, easy to understand and helpful to our visitors.

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